This is such a hopeful viewpoint, which I think you need to have going back into the dating pool. It's too easy to become cynical or defensive about what's out there, it's nicer just to take people on a case-by-case basis, rather than make generalisations, but it's also human nature to look for patterns. Personally, as someone who's been separated for less than a year, and still finding the equilibrium of a 'new normal', I've got a ways to go before I am ready to take that leap of faith, but it's great to hear from those that have made it and are finding it rewarding. Great article, thanks Vicki.