You are fighting against the wiles of a sociopath who has successfully love bombed this new target with a Narrative supported by churchy folk that you drove him to what he will paint as a one-time transgression. He will have said all kinds of stuff about you and will keep you far enough away so that she’ll never get a chance to se any different. Save your energy for fighting for your children’s safety and support, she’ll find out the truth soon enough and hopefully in a way the she escapes before too much harm is done. Stay strong.